How did you get your
start in running Shabbos House?
After our
marriage in 1996, we interviewed for several positions where we could
live the Rebbe’s vision. For one reason or another we turned them
down. Turns out Raizy was looking for the kind of work that we could
do together as a team. Then Rabbi Israel Rubin (Mendel’s father),
regional director for Capital Chabad, told us that the Shabbos House
family left and there was an opening. In our wildest dreams we didn’t
think we’d work out well on a college campus, so we agreed to try it
for one year. And then we fell in love with it, with the people, and
we can’t imagine anything else.
What is the most
rewarding aspect of your jobs?
Friends! We
make so many wonderful friends (which is also the hardest part,
because they leave). It is inspiring to witness so much personal and
spiritual growth. Oh, and there are more.. too many rewards to list!
What kind of
preparation goes into serving a meal for more than 100 people?
The turnouts
grew gradually over the years, which helped us ease into it. Planning
is key. Menus, shopping lists and timelines. Aside for shopping,
preparations begin as early as Wednesday. Thank G-d we have lots of
help, many students come over and make the work easier and more
enjoyable. Right now, it’s the space (small kitchen, not enough room
in the dining room) that creates a lot of difficulty. The greatest
challenge is fundraising to cover the increasing costs, but the
contribution response is heartwarming and somehow it always works out.
On many campuses,
Chabad and Hillel compete for students, while here, they work
together. What makes Shabbos House unique that enables this to
happen?
It truly is
one of the greatest blessings of the UAlbany Jewish community. It
takes two (and more!) to work cooperatively, so we’re very thankful to
the staff at Hillel and to all the Jewish student groups for their
dedication to continuing and furthering this commitment to “one
community”. Hey, why emphasize what divides us, when we can focus on
what unites us.
What is something something weird/funny/interesting
about both of you that we wouldn't have otherwise known?
Mendel would
like to one day write a commentary called “The Depth of Seuss”. Raizy
loves to do Jumbles and word-puzzles. We have four sweet kids, so we
end up doing weird and interesting things all the time.